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Can you be my celebrant and my counsellor?Generally no. Boundaries are good. So, if you have engaged me as your counsellor, I can't be a part of your celebrations. I also, do not counsel clients that I have conducted services for. This extends to your families, so if I am seeing you as a counselling client, I won't be your daughter's celebrant. Life sometimes gets murky (especially in a place like Wollongong where it can feel everyone knows everyone) and I may be conducting a wedding where you are a guest. In these instances please be assured that I will maintain privacy and will not acknowledge our relationship.
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Why do you do Counselling and Celebrancy?Both focus on people, significant life-events and emotional wellbeing. Both counsellors and celebrants provide emotional support. Counsellors help individuals navigate personal challenges, while celebrants support individuals during major life events like weddings, funerals, and naming ceremonies. Both professions deal with life transitions. Counsellors assist with coping strategies during major changes, and celebrants mark those changes with ceremonies that honour and celebrate new beginnings or provide closure. Both roles require a personalized approach tailored to the individual or family's needs and preferences.
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Why isn't your address listed on your site?I provide a lot of counselling off site or online. For those clients that I see face to face I will provide you the address on booking. Same for celebrancy! Most work happens off site and I communicate the address as needed.
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Hey! I know you...kinda - can I use your services?Life can be long, and the Illawarra can be small. So, we may have bumped into each other along the way. If you are looking for Celebrancy services. Yes! Hit me up! I love being a part of people's life affirming events! Please don't ask me for a discount as if I provided a discount to everyone I have met, I would be working for free! If you are looking for counselling services...No. Counselling should be free of baggage and should be a safe space for you to explore without your counsellor having any pre-conceived ideas of who you are. So, if we have performed together, worked together, learned together or if I am your best mate's cousin....try one of the other excellent counsellors in the area.
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Can I do a surprise wedding?It can be a surprise to your guests, but not your partner. Legals are only one aspect. Consent is important.
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Can I write my own ceremony?Of course. There are some legal aspects that need to be covered for weddings, but I can help with all of that.
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I want my friend to marry us? Will you do legals?Yes, I will act as a copilot and facilitate the legals. Reach out for a quote.
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Is your Dolly accent authentic?No! I am from Wollongong and while I give it a good crack, it is a homage rather than an exact performance!
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Do I have to have a wedding rehearsal?Generally no. If there are a lot of components it may make you feel more comfortable. If it is an unusual location (halfway up a cliff) or will involve unusual aspects it may make us all more comfortable.
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Wedding or Commitment Ceremony. Which should I choose?Thats up to you! I love love, but it comes in many forms and a legal marriage may not be right for you. A marriage is a legally binding act that isn't the type of relationship that works for everyone. If you want to talk about the options more drop me a line.
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How do I know if I need counselling?Counseling sessions offer an opportunity to gain clarity on specific issues, break free from old patterns, resolve complex personal matters, or embark on a path of self-development. Whether you seek counseling due to a crisis or are encouraged by loved ones or colleagues, these sessions can provide the support and guidance you need.
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How long does counselling go for?Sessions are 50 minutes. How many sessions depends on you and what you are looking to achieve. Generally, we will work together for between 6 and 26 sessions.
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Do I need a referral?No. You are able to refer yourself.
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Do you accept Medicare?No. As a counsellor I do not accept Mental Health Plans. However my fees are generally less than the gap you would pay.
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Is it private and confidential?Yes. The exception is if I think you may be a danger to yourself or others or if I am subpoenaed by a court of law.
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